Tips and Advice
Non- verbal communication, especially body language can send a strong message in general; in spite of what words you are saying. We can avoid any misunderstandings by:
- Minimizing
potential misunderstandings
- Understanding their audience
- Seek
out feedback from the reciever(s)
- How
the message is understood and attempt to correct any misunderstandings or confusions
through
- Clarifications
and reflection
Tips
- Smile
- Maintain eye contact.
- Stand straight and tall.
- Don't fold your arms! This shows defiance and/or defensiveness.
- Don't fidget (twirl your hair, tap your foot, etc.). This usually indicates
restlessness or nervousness.
- If you are enthusiastic about a topic, you can gesticulate to express your
energy. A lively person is more likely to grab attention. You don't have to
wave your arms like a spaz, but look engaged.
How Non- Verbal Communication can be Ineffective?
It is very important to make sure that the receiver is understanding and knowing what is being "said" to them in order for them to give a clear response and gradually become of interest in the conversation. So how can non- verbal communication be ineffective, you might ask?
- Not received exactly the way the sender intended
- Some people find it difficult to express their thoughts and emotions clearly or completely limit off (taboo) their emotions
- Lack of attention, interest, distractions, or irrelevance to the receiver
- Differences in perception and viewpoint
Remember, make them feel like a priority! poor communication skills can damage all your relationships. This can affect your performance at work, your self-confidence and your physical health. Being genuinely interested in what the person is "saying", builds a stronger bond.
